Got a text saying “I want you so bad” and don’t know what to say back? Maybe you’re super excited and feel the same way. Or maybe you need to slow things down a bit. Or maybe you’re just not feeling it.
Figuring out the best thing to say can be tricky. But don’t worry, we’re here to help.
This guide has got all the answers for how to reply, no matter how you’re feeling.
We’ll make sure you find just the right words.
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“I Want You Too!” – Enthusiastic & Flirty Replies
Caught up in the excitement and feeling the mutual attraction?
These responses are designed to fan the flames of flirtation, showing your eagerness without skipping a beat.
From playful teases to outright admissions of desire, let them know the feeling is mutual with a wink and a smile. Here’s how to keep the spark alive:
1. “Right back at you! Let’s turn this text into reality. 😉”
This response shows mutual interest and excitement about taking things from virtual to real life, adding a playful twist.
2. “Been thinking about you all day. This just made my night!”
Expresses that they’ve been on your mind too, making them feel desired and deepening the connection.
3. “Guess what? The feeling is mutual. What’s our next move?”
This reply keeps the ball rolling by signaling that you’re both on the same page and prompts them to suggest a plan.
4. “I’m all yours! Tell me, what are you thinking?”
Shows openness and interest in their desires, inviting them to share more about their feelings or intentions.
5. “Your message just made me smile so big. Can’t wait to see you!”
Communicates happiness and anticipation, making it clear you’re looking forward to your next meeting.
6. “Just when I thought my day couldn’t get any better, I get this text from you.”
Suggests that their message was a highlight of your day, making them feel special and valued.
7. “And here I was, trying to play it cool. You’re making it hard for me!”
A playful admission that you were trying to maintain composure but their message has swept you off your feet.
8. “Why wait? Let’s make plans.”
Direct and to the point, this reply shows eagerness to move things forward without delay.
9. “You have a way with words. I’m all in. 😏”
Compliments their approach while clearly stating your interest and excitement to engage further.
10. “This is exactly what I needed to hear tonight. You’re on my mind too.”
Indicates that their message was timely and reciprocated, fostering a sense of shared feelings and timing.
“Okay, Slow Down…” – Replies for When You Need More Info
If that text caught you off-guard and you’re not quite sure where you stand, it’s okay to take a moment and gather your thoughts.
These replies are perfect for when you’re intrigued but need a bit more context before diving in headfirst.
It’s all about striking a balance between interest and caution, letting them know you’re on the page, but you’d like to read the fine print:
1. “Wow, didn’t see that coming! Mind if we take a step back and talk about it?”
Expresses surprise and a desire for discussion, aiming to understand their perspective better before moving forward.
2. “I’m flattered, but let’s get to know each other a bit more first. What do you say?”
Politely puts a pause on the advance, suggesting a slower pace to build a more substantial connection.
3. “That’s quite bold of you! I’m curious, what made you say that now?”
This response acknowledges their forwardness and invites them to share more about their timing and feelings.
4. “I appreciate your honesty, but I think we’re at different places right now. Can we discuss?”
Addresses a mismatch in expectations or feelings and opens up a dialogue for clarity.
5. “You’ve got my attention! But I’d like to understand what you’re looking for. Thoughts?”
Shows interest without commitment and seeks more information on their intentions.
6. “That’s a lot to process. I value our connection and want to make sure we’re on the same page.”
Highlights the importance of mutual understanding and values the existing relationship, whatever its nature.
7. “I’m all for openness, but let’s slow down a bit. What’s your ideal scenario here?”
Encourages a slower pace while asking them to outline their hopes or expectations, fostering clear communication.
8. “Your message caught me by surprise! Give me a moment to catch up. 😊”
A light-hearted way to buy time while processing their advance, keeping the tone friendly and open.
9. “I’m honored, truly. Before we dive deeper, could we talk about what this means for us?”
Acknowledges the compliment while seeking a deeper understanding of potential outcomes.
10. “Thanks for being so upfront. I need a bit more time to think about this. Can we chat about it soon?”
Appreciates their directness but asks for time to reflect, suggesting a future conversation for clarity.
“Not Interested” – Kind But Clear Rejection Replies
Not feeling it? That’s perfectly fine.
The art of saying no while maintaining respect and kindness is crucial. Sadly, 60% of younger women experience harassment after saying they aren’t interested. Being direct and clear about your lack of interest is important not only for your emotional wellbeing, but also for your safety.
These replies help you set boundaries without closing the door on civility.
Remember, it’s possible to decline advances gracefully, ensuring the other person feels heard but clearly understands your stance:
1. “I’m really touched by your message, but I don’t feel the same way. I hope we can still be friends.”
Expresses gratitude for their sentiment while gently stating you don’t share their feelings, offering friendship instead.
2. “You’re awesome, but I think we’re better as friends. I value our connection and hope you understand.”
Compliments them and clarifies your interest in maintaining a platonic relationship, emphasizing understanding.
3. “Thank you for your honesty. I’m not looking for anything romantic right now, but I’m glad we can talk openly.”
Appreciates their openness while setting clear personal boundaries regarding romantic involvement.
4. “I respect the courage it took to say that. Unfortunately, I don’t feel we’re a match in that way.”
Recognizes the courage in expressing feelings but makes it clear that there is no romantic interest.
5. “It means a lot that you’d share that with me, but I don’t feel the same. Let’s keep things as they are?”
Shows appreciation for their disclosure and suggests maintaining the current status of the relationship.
6. “I’ve thought about it, and I believe I’m not the right person for what you’re looking for. Thank you for understanding.”
Indicates careful consideration and politely declines, thanking them in advance for their understanding.
7. “You’re a great person, and anyone would be lucky to have you. My feelings are more on the friendly side, though.”
Compliments them and their qualities, while clarifying that your feelings remain platonic.
8. “I appreciate you being so direct. I prefer we remain friends, if that’s okay with you.”
Values their directness and expresses a preference for a friendship, seeking their agreement or acceptance.
9. “Your message took me by surprise. I have a lot of respect for you, but I don’t share those feelings.”
Admits surprise and shows respect while clearly stating a lack of reciprocal romantic feelings.
10. “I’m honored, but I must be honest – my heart’s not in the same place. I hope you find what you’re looking for.”
Expresses feeling honored by their interest but clarifies the absence of mutual feelings, wishing them well in their search for romance.
Texting can be tough, but choosing the right words lets you be real and clear, no matter how you’re feeling.
Remember, it’s all about being honest with yourself and talking openly, whether you’re sharing the same feelings, need more details, or just saying no thanks.
Keep it real and have fun texting!
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Q1. What if the “I want you so bad” text is from my ex?
Focus on whether you have any lingering feelings, if there was a clear reason for the breakup, and the importance of being honest with yourself about your intentions.
Q2. Should I always reply by text, or is a phone call better?
Briefly outline situations where a call is ideal (long-term relationship, need to clarify tone, potential for misunderstanding).
Q3. What if the text makes me feel uncomfortable or unsafe?
Emphasize trusting your instincts, the right to set firm boundaries, and that it’s NEVER your fault if someone sends an unwanted or aggressive text. Could include a resource link.
Q4. How do I reply if I’ve only known the person for a short time?
Suggest responses that slow things down, acknowledge the compliment neutrally, and suggest getting to know each other better before escalating things.
Q5. Is it okay to feel flattered even if I don’t want to date them?
Absolutely! Validation of desire is normal, even if you don’t reciprocate the feeling. Explain how to express gratitude while kindly but firmly setting a boundary.
